Fuck this idea that you have to be nice to everybody, because they’re also ”going through shit”
I’ve seen so many quotes, tattoos, posts, and even hear it everyday.
"Be nice to everybody."
Or, if I’m in a bad mood and it comes off that I’m trying to make everyone else around me miserable, I’ll often times hear “You should really assess your emotions in a logical, practical and rational way. There’s no need to be so upset and take it out on everybody else.”
And let’s not forget, the hippy dippy degenerates that tell you that you’re giving off “bad vibes” and you shouldn’t be so “negative.”
This is why I’m only nice to a limited amount of people, because I’m not going to be conditioned to be nice to people that are fucking assholes.
I’m nice to those that don’t feel the incessant need to remind me of something I already know, or that I’m not myself that day. They mind their business or just talk to me like they normally would.
How about this simple concept: Leave people alone
Seriously, is that too much to ask for?
If someone is in a shitty mood, don’t point it out and make them feel worse about it. You’re adding insult to injury in hopes for that person to recognize their own behavior, which doesn’t make it any better.
Trust me, if I’m in a bad mood and I’m not being nice to somebody, I’m aware of it. I’m aware of it and I’m not stopping because that person, somehow, in some way, pissed me off further to the point that I chose to make their day a living hell until they outright stopped being a dick.
I’m allowed to have bad days. I’m allowed to be a jerk. I’m allowed to talk shit, whether you want to believe it or not. I’m allowed to dislike you and I’m allowed to be “rude” when you step into my personal space and berate me with me unnecessary comments about my mood/behavior, because you feel like your positive, uplifting “feelings” are somehow superior to mine, which gives you authority over me. And that’s bullshit.